ISU KAHWIN : Nisa Kay bila lagi ?

Assalamualaikum...

 

Haaa isu kahwin ni dah menjadi-jadi sejak dua menjak ni.. Lagi-lagi bila masuknya tahun baru ni kan.. Lagi lahh ramai yang duk cucuk cucuk aku.. "takde calon ke ?" Haa tahun dah berganti tahun, umur makin meningkat kata merekaa... jadi BILA NAK KAHWIN ??? Seriously korang.. isu bila nak kahwin ni takkan habis selagi aku tak kawin ! HAHA…

 

Haaa arakian lah aku menerima soalan BILA NAK KAWIN, aku tayang muka seposen aku haa... Aku pelik lah.. Jodoh tu kurniaan Allah.. Allah dah tetapkan jodoh kita sejak azali lagi, bukan ? Dalam pada kita usaha, kita mencari-cari jugak yang berkenan di hati.. tapi jodoh tu tak jugak kekal lama, terputus pulak di pertengahan jalan.. Ouch ! Orang kata KALAU DAH TAKDE JODOH, usaha lah macam mana, tak leh nak kekal jugak lah kan ?? Kalau dah berjodoh tu, TAK KE MANA kannn…

 

Seriously people, kalau jodoh itu pappp jatuh kat riba.. atau boleh pilih pilih di pasaraya dah lama dah oi aku kahwin.. Kalau majlis kawin tu sendiri tak payah fikir apa-apa, poofff semua tersedia.. khemah terpasang, makanan terhidang, baju sanding elok tersarung kat badan, haa lama dah aku kawenn.. haha amboi statement.. INSHAALLAH... Kalau dah sampai masa, dah sampai seru, mestiii Allah permudahkan jalan aku membina masjid, aku yakin tu.. hehehe korang doakan je la ye. Aku sendiri pun tak kecoh nak kawin, hope orang lain tak susah hati lelebih. Hikkss..

 

I want to share something with you readers..
something that I came across fesbuk ! Hehehe..

 

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FULL CREDIT TO FACEBOOK PAGE WOMANSERA
(I did not copy the entire content, I chose those that kinda related to me hihii…)

 

1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.

2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesn't want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won't make any difference. Let her study while she wants to, okay?

3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she's been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.

4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.

5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and available.

6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is "having a good time" with all of them.

7. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.

8. Just because she is ambitious doesn't mean she isn't a family person.

9. Just because she doesn't discuss her plans doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?

10. Just because she is outspoken doesn't mean she is a rebel.

11. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.

12. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect that.

13. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?

14. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in military school.

15. Just because she doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she won't make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?

16. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts.

17. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.

Yes, we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us in the wrong way. Times are changing; don't confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society.

 

FULL CREDIT TO FACEBOOK PAGE WOMANSERA
(I did not copy the entire content, I chose those that kinda related to me hihii…)

 

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Uhukk tersedak usus bila tengok gambar sendiri bermain dengan bride crown dan veil masa photoshoot raya kat white studio dulu.. Sebenarnya aku nak up gambar aku pakai crown dengan sorang kawan lelaki yang duk try tanjak pengantin lelaki.. Tapi kang makin gempar pulak lah orang kata aku dah kawin. Hahahaa… Makan hati mak haku tengok. Tak pasal-pasal bertambah gosip aku dengan kawan lelaki aku itew. Opps.

 

Macam ni lah.. Pasal kawin, sejujur jujur jujurnya aku tidak ada perancangan, takde calon, jauh sekali bersedia untuk satu komitmen yang besar. Aku rasa aku muda lagi laa, baru 23 tahun *tersedak lagi sekali* Hee nak buat macam mana, aku tak dapat rezeki jumpa jodoh awal macam orang lain.. Isu ni tak pernah habis.. kat instagram, twitter, facebook, ramai duk tanya. And.. To my friends yang kahwin awal dan sudah berkeluarga, I’m more than happy for you guys ! May Allah bless your journey along your loved ones :D

 

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PIC TEMA WEDDING DI ATAS CREDIT TO MY FAV PHOTOG :
AMIR NAUFAL PHOTOGRAPHY

 

Haaa sekali up jugek gambar ala ala perantin (pengantin) sepi ni. Hahaa.. Mana tak nya, perantin lelaki nya takdokk ! HAHAHAA.. Aku kawen nanti (inshaAllah), ada tak nak sponsor baju kawen macam ni ? Aku dah jejatuh chenta lah kat dress ni. Serious rasa diri macam Cinderella angat angat ! Haha bahasa mintak penampar je aku rasa.

 

Amboi.. sponsor ? Kemain berangan tinggi nau sampai ke Marikh.. ! Sekali jatuh, habiss berkecaiii Muahahaa… Ok lah, aku rasa makin melalut dah entry aku ni.. Baiklah kiranya aku stop menaip supaya tak keluar lagi dah ayat ayat yang tah apa-apa.. (Aku rasa ini sindrom orang yang dah lama tak update blog ?) K bye.

 

 

 

XOXO, Putewi Hensem !